If you are or someone you know is struggling with the complex and painful experience of grief after the death of a spouse, child, family member or friend, then we invite you to consider finding help and encouragement through Ascension’s grief support ministry, GriefShare.
GriefShare is a network of 12,000+ churches worldwide, equipped to offer grief support groups. Ascension’s grief recovery ministry offers GriefShare in a series of weekly support meetings designed to offer compassionate conversation along with helpful tools and resources to help you process your grief and rebuild your life after losing a loved one.
The current session of GriefShare is a 10-week program led by Pastor Tony and takes place on Tuesday evenings from 6 to 8 p.m. from March 27 – May 30. Through the use of video teaching and small group conversation, we seek to provide a safe and supportive space to provide care and encouragement that can be crucial to a person in grief.
Participants are encouraged to attend all 10 sessions however you are also welcome to begin our GriefShare group at any point. Each session is “self-contained,” so you do not have to attend in sequence, and you will be able to pick up any session you missed in our 10-week cycle.
Please contact the church office to sign up or sign up online. Questions? Please contact Pastor Tony, 262-547-8518 or tony@ascensionelca.org.
What a way to start summer 2022! Adventure Camp with the confirmation youth and Latino Ministries Camp with the Spanish-speaking families of the Greater Milwaukee Synod and the South Central Synod all in the same week. In both activities it was my first participation with this type of ministry.
Adventure camp was a wonderful experience surrounded by many activities next to the wonderful natural resources that God has given us. I had the opportunity to live and interact with young people that I didn’t have the opportunity to connect with during our confirmation classes. I was able to face my fear of heights during the rock climbing and zip line. If the confirmation students experiences were similar to mine, their parents will be happy to know that there was a lot of prayer at this church camp in those moments.
There was a lot of joy and a lot of energy, but my time at the lake and at the Kalahari were also filled with a lot of difficult moments and spiritual meditation. During the time at the lake my mind was thinking about my nephew Fabricio and wondering what he was feeling in those last moments of his life in the lake at Adventure Camp. Seeing the young people enjoying the Lily Pad that Pastor Tony and Pastor Chris rented and watching everyone’s joy motivated me to join them. I tried to enjoy the moment, but at the same time I had my eyes on all of them, mainly the two young men from the Latino Ministry who did not know how to swim.
Entering the Kalahari was another big moment. The day the tragedy happened, my wife and daughters and I were at the Kalahari. We were in the lobby outside of the water park when we received the news of Fabricio’s death. I told my wife we would never step foot in the Kalahari again, yet here I was. Let me be honest. When we were about to enter the Kalahari the only thing I said was “God, please I don’t want to receive any more bad news in this place.” We had only been inside for 10 minutes when suddenly I saw three missed calls from my brother Carlos and three calls from my dad. My anxiety went through the roof for a few minutes. The wonderful thing was that the calls weren’t about bad news, just mundane ordinary things.
My first experience in the camp with the young people has been very helpful for me personally because it has allowed me to face fear and uncertainty in those moments and places where I have had only bad experiences. It is difficult to face those bad memories, but it is important that we remember that the only way to get out of that cycle of fear is to walk through it. This is how we become more resilient people, facing difficult and even frightening situations. When we are walking through those moments of fear and grief, we do not walk alone. God walks alongside us.
Another activity in June was the family gathering held by all the Latino ministries of the Milwaukee Synod and the South Central Synod of Wisconsin. We had the presence of five Latino congregations. Families had the opportunity to meet and interact with other ministries in the area. They are even asking us when we will have our next family retreat. This retreat had been planned since 2019, but over the years it had been cancelled over and over again due to covid. The fact that families are asking for a family retreat in 2023 is a sign that there is a desire for interaction with other ministries. We will continue working so that our Latino ministry has more interaction activities within our Church and outside of it.
May you feel the presence of the Holy Spirit walking alongside you as you face your fears and moments of sadness. And may those moments be few and far between.
Our Pastoral Assistant Ministry exists to spread Christ’s love and Word by extending significant pastoral care throughout the congregation and the community. We have had this ministry in place for many years. Perhaps you have met them if you were hospitalized or have been homebound or in a rehab facility. The Pastoral Care team members are: Brenda Lytle RN, the Director of Care Ministries for Ascension; Paul Wehmeier, Melody Maass, Arlene Davis, Bonnie Thiesenhusen, Sally Wagner, and Jim Hahn.
Thank you to all of our Pastoral Assistants who make monthly visits to members in our congregation for prayer, scripture, and sacrament. It keeps our members connected at times when they are alone and vulnerable. God’s love is intertwined with a kind of love of loving and serving others. If you or a family member is hospitalized and would like a visit from our pastors or pastoral assistants, please call the church office at 262-547-8518
By this everyone will know that you are my disciples if you love one another.
John 13:35
Grief Support Ministry
We are planning to host the full 12-week sessions of Grief Share again this fall. If you or a loved one have suffered loss and would like some help and support, this may be the program for you. If you would like to be a part of our Grief Share program please contact: Brenda Lytle, RN, Director of Care Ministries at brenda@ascensionelca.org or 262-547-8518.
Chosen’s ribbon cutting at the new locations in Waukesha
Be the Village Ministry
Chosen had a ribbon cutting in June for the new Waukesha location of their Family Closet for foster and adoptive families. The newly-opened location is at 400 Travis Lane, #30. We will be holding a school supply drive for Chosen in August. More info in next month’s newsletter.
Save Sept. 10 for Chosen’s 2022 “Walk on the Wild Side” for foster care. Supporters will walk through the Zoo with Chosen t-shirts/bags and buttons, helping to raise awareness about foster care. Supporters learn important fostering information at specific passport check-points and then will gather for a picnic lunch.
Cancer Care Ministry Opens Arms to Those in Need
Our Cancer Care Ministry helps members of our congregation. If you know of a congregational member or family that could use some assistance walking their cancer journey, please contact Brenda Lytle, brenda@ascensionelca.org or 262-547-8518.
Young at Heart (55+)
The Young at Heart group meets on the 3rd Wednesday of each month to gather for a potluck and play cards and enjoy fellowship. Below are some of the events we are planning this year.
Mitchell Park Domes on July 13: Feel the heat of a desert oasis, the humidity of a tropical jungle and the bright colors of a floral garden…all at one destination! The Mitchell Park Horticultural Conservatory, better known as the Domes, is a living museum filled with plants from across the globe. Visit Milwaukee’s most unique destination.
“White Christmas” at the Fireside Theatre, Nov. 3: The day includes a delicious lunch from the Fireside chefs followed by a heart-warming performance of “White Christmas.” Sign up at the Young at Heart meeting to reserve your ticket/dinner/show/transportation. Please contact Arlene Davis at 262-542-9119 with any questions.
Are you struggling with grief from the loss of a loved one? Mary Lou Charapata and Brenda Lytle will facilitate grief support sessions on April 27, May 2, May 11, May 18, and May 25, from 9:30-11:30 a.m. in the Youth Room. Questions or to make a reservation? Please contact Brenda Lytle or 262-547-8518.
